Monday, July 04, 2005


Last Friday night, don't know what caused it, but I started to feel the first signs of homesickness.

I was thinking of the places that I will probably never see again, of the River Thames in particular, especially Twickenham riverside. A part of me, and ghosts of memories haunt areas of my soul and come creeping up during dark nights and tears spring to my eyes with thoughts of what was, and what could have been. I shared a lot of my fears and hopes with that river and my echo is there still. Discussing this with the better half, he told me that if we ever went back, it would be different, even if nothing has changed.

He's so right.

My memories, happy, happy-sad and bitter-sweet memories of the places that I knew in my childhood and early adult years will remain just memories. I cannot relive them and I cannot bring them back. Usually, I had no-one to share those thoughts and feelings with after walking away from the places that I frequented then. I do now - and we have both torn ourselves away from places that we grew up in and have started life afresh in a place that has such outstanding natural beauty, that we can build new memories to share.

We have just had the best weekend since first moving up. We didn't visit anywhere beautiful, but we have started to get our lives together as the house that we chose to live in, in small ways is becoming a home.

Here's to the next 30 years of building homes and memories.


Paul said...

Parting is such sweet sorrow as the poet said. :)

Paul said...

Home is where the heart is . :)

d said...

I often feel the same way, not only having left London but the entire Country! But it would never be the same going back. It is an odd place to be! It IS bittersweet, happy wam memories but sorrow to boot.

I have enjoyed reading your journey from Egland to Wales. You write well and have what i would call a refreshingly "poignant" blog here. I might even link to you so I can get back easier, if that's Ok with you?


Fiona said...

Thank you both for your comments. Duncan - link away!